"Shiloh is much more reserved than her other siblings, but recently, while they were all on this seemingly never-ending trip around Europe, she finally spoke up about her true feelings - she misses her and wants to see him more," the anonymous source added, "Shiloh has been miserable living with her mom. There are plenty of ways to get revenge on your ex. You are not alone. The marriage was an all time joke. Besides, it's not your business anymore what he or she does. Don't cyberstalk, drive by his house, accidentally "show up" at places that you both frequent or anything else. What exactly is a mind game? Well, I will teach you that later but lets just assume that he is leading you on and making you think that he wants you back when he really doesn't. You check your e-mail and there’s a message from your ex. My ex said he had made up his mind and he is the kind to not change his mind. If you want a healthy relationship, you have to make and keep yourself emotionally healthy. I suck my finger whenever and wherever I want to. She also said I would die in my 50s or 60s which has stuck in my head. Directed by Travis Mathews. And there is this another one i had, the type Bruno Mars sang about in Grenade who take and take but never gave anything, she even got pregnant for another person while we were still together. He became my boss midway through this project, and I've been miserable ever since. Want to know how to get your ex back? Change yourself. We would talk laugh and kiss and have a great time together. Now, I don't recommend doing what I did back then as a test whether you are over your Ex or not. My father picked my mom and I up. I don’t want him or her to have to go through this, I don’t know if I am cut out to be a mom right now. Has your ex left you Did he or she not seem to care Have they moved on with their life Are they happy and you miserable Rest assured you do. So you're here because you want to know the signs your ex wants you back… but is too stubborn to admit it. After I asked to break up with him I met my next boyfriend with whom I got married 4 years later, in this time the ex was after me in a quite aggressive wayI never gave him one thought (it has now been 9 years after our break up)I am now happily. Clearly he doesn’t actually trust himself either. Instead, you need to revamp your wardrobe to reflect the new you. Now that you know these reasons, you have to stop doing these things and rather be a self-sufficient person. And sometimes, as bad as it is, that also includes whomever he wants. The matter is under investigation. But, I constantly had people asking me if I was okay, or asking me if I saw this or that about him. In fact, I began by writing a several hundred word tirade about how the Narc is acting like the poor hurt puppy in this narcissistic relationship and how dare he, after all he’s done. I want to know where you stand on the whole “staying friends with your ex” thing. Recently I moved to the country/ town where my boyfriend lives, after a few months of long-distance relationship with visits intermittent. I had him arrested but the Police said that since he admitted the charge they could not stop him returning to the house. Your flight left Friday morning and you wouldn't be back until Sunday. Your wife says she isn't happy, and hasn't been for years. Are you impatient with yourself, or maybe just sick of feeling miserable? Friends, I don't blame you. One of the greatest signs your ex is miserable without you is when your ex wants to make you miserable in return. Yeah, it was worth the drama of a divorce. Refuse to Let People Talk To You About What Your Ex is Doing: When my ex and I broke up, I just didn't want to hear about him. Okay! First of all, this answer might not be the exact requirement to this question. I just kind of let my mind blank out during those times because I. We have joint custody now. she is pissed and I dont want her to be miserable Hi so I’m in a situation where I know my ex still loves me. You don't want him back like he is now, you want him to realize he has made a big mistake and prove himself to you. You want your ex back, but you also want him to feel the pain and misery you feel first. This part of your brain doesn't physiologically fully develop until your mid-twenties or so. I am not dismissing the possibility of this, but as you continue to read I will show you how the situation still needs to be handled in a similar way to the liar. You have gone over and over this a thousand times in your head, but still, you can’t decide. I earn more than my ex and am currently paying EVERY household bill. Why Is My Girlfriend Pushing Me Away? that she does not want to be my gf and likes someone else. Should I just move on or should I let him know how I feel. Good luck x. Mar 25, 2014. If face-to-face contact is too difficult use email. My Husband, The Miserable Drama Queen and "my husband is miserable to be around". its very true that when relationships break emotions leaks out from places you least expected. Here is background on my ex, she was married with a guy for years and could not have kids, the man was not fertile after much medicine nothing worked, then she started an affair with a married man got preagnant and want back to marriage told her it was his baby, 2 yrs later they divorce and tell him the baby was not his, she then started again. -Do you want that your Ex should regret that what he did with you?? -Do you want that your Ex must feel the same you are feeling?? Make your Ex regret, Cry and suffer for You in 3 Minutes-Your. They don't deserve but a half star, unfortunately that wasn't an option. I part of me wants to move on and feel sorry for him, he's a total loser. My new boyfriend doesn’t understand and he doesn’t really know what to do to make me feel better. I noticed that my ex-wife, who is newly sober, was there. We are single, but It's possible we could get back together in the future. Are you trying to move on, but finding it difficult to be without him? If so, here's how to move on from your ex boyfriend, even if you're still in love with him. Even if it hurts, pray for him/her to be happy in the new chapter of his/her life—even if without you. I am married and miserable. Your wife is a spoiled brat. It was a while ago when it happened but I still remember how bad the emotional pain was when I realized that it was really over. Updated on June 18, 2019 Give your miserable self a chance to speak up. I can't predict what might happen with you and your ex. This is the oldest trick in the book, but it works like a charm time and time again! As you recover from your breakup, and you decide that you want to make your ex miss you, you need to put your best foot forward. and didn't want to have an affair, so I left my husband. We want to hear what. I don’t want to be this. It might just be that I’m a private person, but I don’t want to post my strengths on my office door. You just want him to listen with rapt attention. Nia is amazing, and I want us to have another chance. But you should however be careful in getting your hopes up if your ex likes you. For most of my marriage, I struggled with one decision: stay or leave. Hello every one my names are Clifford Esther from UK, I want to use this golden medium to appreciate Dr. Sometimes it can be hard for a relationship to have a completely clean break when it ends. Yes my friends, unhappiness is a choice! Sometimes we envy those who are so miserable, “Why can’t I be as sad as him” or “She’s so lucky, you never see her without a frown on her face”. It gets even worse when you still love your ex and want to get back together. Viewing 4 posts - 1 through 4 (of 4 total) Author Posts February 7, 2019 at 4:09 am #279117 NairobiParticipant Hi, I've posted a couple of times on here. Want to know how to get your ex back? Change yourself. Here are 10 promises I make to you, my daughter-in-law: I will always pray for you. It was my ex. Miss Manners: I want my ex to get sober - just not at my meeting. 14 Things I Learned From Getting Back Together With An Ex. Many times i felt miserable on the inside and cried my life out day and night in my room alone but as time went on, i outgrew the my reality i was passing through the years. "I want my ex back," I hate the thoughts of divorce. Since then I have had to take her to court to get access back, and had to pay for that access via a contact centre under supervision. I want my ex to suffer. Keep the chin up as well as your spirits high, because if you're miserable, your ex lover won't want any kind of a part of it. On our Facebook community page, more than 400,000 of us inspire one another daily through positive messages, quote memes and anything else that encourages happy and loving marriages. On the other hand, my family supports me now in ever manner they could but still, when I need someone I just can't bring myself to talk to them. 12 ways to be the crazy ex and get your revenge. Why is that? We miss all the good things, of course – you know when they made us feel good and gave us what we needed emotionally and physically. I found this to be the case with my ex-NARC, as I discovered on my own, just exactly what she had been up to all along. " Keep it next to your bed, and refer to it often. the one and only thing that can kee you alive is hope no matter how we are hurt,if love was true its bound to come back because or heart never understands what our minds tries to say. Even though I really dislike my ex a lot more then any normal person I don't want anything bad to happen to her, and I hope she can go through life happy with whoever can put up with her >:). You just want him to listen with rapt attention. Do you want your Ex back. However there are strong cases of narcissistic women ie. That is a key element of making your ex want you back – making them miss you. I came to this website because I have the same problem and I don't know how to handle it. I love my new job, my new boss is great! I thought that would end the bullying from my ex boss, but it only made it worse. Praying for my own marriage has changed what every day has looked like. When an ex-boyfriend got married, I was more upset than I thought I'd be. I wanted so badly for something to go right for him. If you are looking for a surefire way to bring your ex back to you, these are the best love spells to return a lover easily and quickly to you. On the contrary, they aim to destroy people and their lives however they can: emotionally, physically and sometimes also financially. What exactly is a mind game? Well, I will teach you that later but lets just assume that he is leading you on and making you think that he wants you back when he really doesn't. I'm so tired. And, as a wife who has been cheated on, I completely understand this. but I remain convinced that our marriage would have grown biter and miserable. Perhaps you want him to make eye contact, hold your hand, nod every once in a while, and so on. And I will leave you there with tears rolling down your not-so-smooth cheeks. I was in love with a guy whom I thought he also in love with me,not knowing he has a another lover out. Plug in your Ipod and listen to your favorite music and kick it into gear. What if I am remembering things incorrectly? What if I am wrong about his narcissism? What if I am misrepresenting him? What if?. i love him so much to the extend that i could not think of dating any man again, i was confused and depress due to the love i had for him. I also do not want to affect my children by getting married again and maybe having step-siblings. RIGHT CHOICES: Getting your ex back, you have to make the right choices. Even if it hurts, pray for him/her to be happy in the new chapter of his/her life—even if without you. My ex is making my life miserable. You want him to regret it so much that he’ll come crawling back to you. I love my new job, my new boss is great! I thought that would end the bullying from my ex boss, but it only made it worse. I still love him dearly but I think he has moved on. But at the end of the day, that's all that it would be - me trying. This is the oldest trick in the book, but it works like a charm time and time again! As you recover from your breakup, and you decide that you want to make your ex miss you, you need to put your best foot forward. People can get an up-close and personal hi-tech history of the iconic honoree’s, and feel apart of their favorite team. Try to keep this is in the forefront of your mind when you are struggling with no contact. Today, I am 1 year and 2. If they're genuinely concerned about you, of course they will ask mutual friends how you are. Being in love is like hearing a bear roar in the forest. Do you often think to yourself, “my husband is an asshole?” Maybe he’s a control freak or maybe you allowed things to get out of control. Add your answer to the question "So miserable My ex-girlfriend is all I want in the world. In my divorce, I stood up and said to my ex-wife, 'Hey, I messed up. 11 Weird Ways To Know Your Ex Actually Might Be Your Soulmate. Why? Because he's Leo, I need to get over my ex, I want to stop thinking about my ex, and I want to create jealousy and drama. If you have already broken up with your partner and all you can think about is how bad I want my ex back then you need to start by letting go. We're the good ones. Sitting around waiting for your ex to repair your breakup is something you never want to do - not until he wants you back for good. We need them to be miserable, because it's not the way our story is supposed to end. How to Leave Your Wife Without Leaving Your Children. Hi Saz, I'm sad to hear of your situation, I have been in the same boat. He hasn't so what he means by miserable at best is that without her, the least he can say is that he will be miserable , putting it as nice as possible or at best. So that brought up a lot of shit and I’ve been angry, sad, that is also something that has led to my recent drinking problem. You are done! You want out! Your marriage is killing you and you know it. Be prepared that if you marry this man (who by the way is REALLY rushing if he's only a year out from divorce!) that the ex-wife (and your fiancee) will complicate EVERYTHING in your life from here on out--even after the children are grown. "We want our Narcissist ex to be miserable. Responding in a calm, non-reactive fashion may seem like you’re “giving in,” but the opposite is true. We want to hear what. The emotions and 4 years of my ex dragging me to court for nonexistent issues which were always thrown out by the judge, passive aggressive games, lack of emotional support from my parents (they stood by my kids instead of me and enforced my kids' opinions that I had lost my mind) left me little choice but to move from the area. Lindsay Dodgson. Sound advice. now I want to get revenge so they suffer for what they've done I just want revenge on my boss - he is such a jerk! I do all the work and he takes all the credit My neighbor is making my life hell. We're afraid that as soon as we leave, as soon as we decide to let go and move on, he will come around and want that committed relationship, and we will miss the kind of relationship with him we'd been waiting and holding on for so long for. He blocked me screen name and i have tryed everything to talk to him. The natural thing to want to do in this situation is chase your girlfriend to get her back. Do you really want to bring YOUR children into this already sticky, mucky morass?. I do care about him but I don't have need to tell him I love him. I was in love with a guy whom I thought he also in love with me,not knowing he has a another lover out. You have to try with all your might not to break the no contact period otherwise this won't work. he want straight to my family and paid my knocking after that he start to show me attitude he doesn’t call me again all of a sudden one day he said he can’t married me again but I just pretend as if am ok with it deep inside am dying one day his friend said he want get married with and I. Ask him to reach out to you tomorrow. What can I do?” I’ll offer some suggestions in the following article. The victim mentality is poisonous. I dont want to go to prom with my ex? Do not go with them if you don't want to. I want to be very clear about something right off the bat. But don't let yourself downward spiral into thinking that you want him back just because he's. Let's jump right in, shall we? My Perfect (ex-) Husband had a girlfriend. But he still went through with it all. You want him to regret it so much that he’ll come crawling back to you. And, as a wife who has been cheated on, I completely understand this. I searched Google to get more information and that is when I came to some. He makes me feel like I’m losing my mind. hi mel, it has just been a month since my ex narc has discarded me. Every day, forever. By addicted to wanting the outcome to be in your favor. Three Ways To Make Peace With Your Ex. They are definitely not affordable and the staff could care less whether you are happy or not - I'm miserable. The idea of running seems pretty miserable, let alone actually doing it. But for those who are more impulsive or have no knack for self-improvement, there are still some revenge tactics you can turn to in order to get back at your ex. I don't understand. Why is it that writers/experts write as if the narcissistic ex is usually the man? My narcissistic ex-wife is making my life, and the lives of our three children, a destabilizing, living hell! I spent $70K trying to end this marriage (because she dragged out every aspect of the process) and now I am broke, and still miserable. my ex who don’t want me to have anything to do with my 2 boys just because I introduced them to another woman over 1 year ago. You're the mother of my kids - I don't want to hate you. I understand there are some men who struggle with showing their love. Welcome to my monstrously large list of signs your ex isn’t over you. 34 thoughts on "Narcissists Feel Great-They make Others Feel Miserable" It's as if my ex is from another world! I don't want to be unfair to her is. The things your ex is saying to your son about you is awful. If you want. Even if it hurts, pray for him/her to be happy in the new chapter of his/her life—even if without you. This psychological technique is a sign of a miserable ex-partner. If sleeping with your ex leaves you feeling heartbroken and rejected, then there's no reason to torture yourself. You put in all you could, even if it came at the expense of your ego. Just want to see our favorite menswear. “I am simply not the relationship type. I cut off and blocked all contact with her 7 months ago. Dear Polly, I want to start by saying thank you so much to you and your column. I’m just so unhappy after another exhausting weekend of his sulking and/or shouting. If you wronged her, you already know you need to make it right. Viewing 4 posts - 1 through 4 (of 4 total) Author Posts February 7, 2019 at 4:09 am #279117 NairobiParticipant Hi, I've posted a couple of times on here. GPS tracker? Give me a break. My ex left me 3years ago ,I still miss him but he and his misstress put me through. My ex pays me £135 per month to cover his share of the food bill. I'm also worried about having a child with them, if the Bible requires that of me, I'm worried they would use my depression against me, and would eventually leave me and take the child away to. For the next four years it was back and forth between attempts to keep the marriage. I wouldn't refer this place to my ex-wife and I DETEST HER!!!!! They love taking your money but do not guarantee there product. I’m Afraid to Get Divorced, But I Don’t Want to Stay Married Either! September 8, 2016 by Karen Covy 318 Comments What do you do when your marriage is a mess, and you know you should get out, but you’re afraid to get divorced?. Remember if you bring up the topic of getting back together, they will again put their defenses on. Feb 21, 2013. You are stuck. which is when the narcissist starts to tear down your confidence and makes you miserable. No one needs consent to leave a relationship. Its a hard transition but if you go back you will have to start the whole process again. I want my ex to suffer. I can't get over the bitterness from that relationship. Lindsay Dodgson. All I Wanna See My Ex be is Miserable. Posted by Nugget on June 5, You don’t want updates or pop ups, you just want to pretend like they never happened and no. Minty_Fresh - Miserable Cunt. My dads wife and my ex wife got into it the christmas while she was pregnant. How To Deal With Mean and Nasty People In Your Life. I want to tell my story and see what you think, about my roommate who is in a mental hospital right now. They want to be. And ever since, there's been so much I've wanted to say. If they're genuinely concerned about you, of course they will ask mutual friends how you are. hi mel, it has just been a month since my ex narc has discarded me. If he then admits that he is miserable about her, doesn’t want to be spending time with others and wishes he could. Getting your ex back when she has moved on is heart wrenching, believe me, I've been there, I know exactly what you're going through and that is why I wrote this post. Maybe that's because you think it'll help him get a sense of empathy - but it won't, at least not for long. The poem really touched me. I want out of this situation, but don't know how I should go about getting out from under my husband's control. My ex-husband never apologized for cheating on me; My ex-husband never apologized for cheating on me. Love is not self-seeking. I really don’t understand why these people want to take advantage of those who are deeply hurt. I'm also worried about having a child with them, if the Bible requires that of me, I'm worried they would use my depression against me, and would eventually leave me and take the child away to. Ask him to reach out to you tomorrow. Live the life you've always wanted -- the one you may have put on the back-burner for your ex. Many times i felt miserable on the inside and cried my life out day and night in my room alone but as time went on, i outgrew the my reality i was passing through the years. I love my new job, my new boss is great! I thought that would end the bullying from my ex boss, but it only made it worse. I'm guessing that if you're reading an article about why not to call your ex, it's not because you're feeling like an energized, gorgeous, popular, and desired person. My boyfriend is active duty and stationed in a different. However, today I let my friend talk away, as that's what she likes to do. Attempting to move to Hayward wi to be closer to my family for help and support. And then we both looked at each other and kissed. Updated on June 18, 2019 Give your miserable self a chance to speak up. I'm about to leave my husband over my step-daughter Now, friend, there is something seriously wrong when a 'christian', yes, I am assuming that the little black cross in your icons is intended to represent you as one, is threatening to 'leave my husband'. I also want to tell my. Read Chapter 10 from the story My Ex-Wife by HellRider8 (Hell Rider) with 1,457 reads. If you're calling your ex every day, they're going to tell people that you're calling them every five minutes, because that's how it's going to seem to them. My ex is now afraid to communicate with me for fear that my wife will intercept her messages that are meant for me. Dear Captain Awkward, I’ve been in a relationship for over four years now, initially long-distance but much closer for the past year and a half. If he then admits that he is miserable about her, doesn’t want to be spending time with others and wishes he could. Why do so many people want to be miserable? Answer. I was operating a business from my home which had to do with investigations in an abusive area, which was my ex-husband's hometown. With this background, such a sentence is only a slap in the face, and an insult. This never-ending road to Calvary; These men who seem to know my crime Will surely come a second time. But I can't stop myself from hoping he's miserable and knows he's messed up something good and wanting something bad to happen to him. We would talk laugh and kiss and have a great time together. People can get an up-close and personal hi-tech history of the iconic honoree’s, and feel apart of their favorite team. I wanted a divorce and now I'm miserable you are feeling. I have made provision for all Judi’s needs, i. Sometimes, the lack of sexual desire has a gradual onset and in others, it’s present from the very beginning. My ex went so far as placing anonymous calls to local child protective agencies, claiming I was abusing and neglecting my kids, after I left him because he was having an affair. A lot depends on your perspective, and how you adapt to your new situation. She has an obsessive personality and tries to make my boyfriend an unfit father to keep her child support going. I know it's petty, but I want him miserable. Do you have this question go through your mind. 8 Things That Only Truly Miserable People Do. This is very important. But another part of me, the stronger side, want to HATE him. which is when the narcissist starts to tear down your confidence and makes you miserable. You build your ex up to an impossibly high standard in your mind that no man can measure up to, not even your ex himself! If you want to get over him, get present to all the things that didn’t work in the relationship and get excited to discover all the great things a new relationship can bring into your life. Here are 14 signs your ex is still stuck on you. Sometimes it can be hard for a relationship to have a completely clean break when it ends. In that instance, you can critique how they probably won't last and how miserable he looks in their latest selfie captioned, "#truelove. Your struggle is real, the ex is abusive, and her nasty and controlling behavior will catch up to her in the form of karma. and didn't want to have an affair, so I left my husband. Sad, really. Drew Peterson Says He's Miserable Behind Bars, Cites 'No TV,' 'Terrible Food' I have no TV or anything and I haven’t been out since I got here,” wrote the ex Do you want to see. Don’t give up. Every day, forever. I’m just so unhappy after another exhausting weekend of his sulking and/or shouting. Love stinks. my ex who don't want me to have anything to do with my 2 boys just because I introduced them to another woman over 1 year ago. Keep discussions with your Ex focused on your kids. Julie Gowthorpe] on Amazon. It’s a cliche to say “it could happen to anyone”, but I do believe that’s true. It was a while ago when it happened but I still remember how bad the emotional pain was when I realized that it was really over. it’s like they want to. affair with an ex. “Do I want to sing the Florida fight song, do I want Florida at the Game-Day desk? And I can go. They talk about it to their mate, and want to know why it happens. He didn't succeed but don't be surprised if your angry ex-attempts to do the same in your situation. This part of your brain doesn’t physiologically fully develop until your mid-twenties or so. So it's not that God doesn't want us to be happy. It makes me stomach turn. It could also be you answering the painful question- what if? What if we didn't break up? What am I missing out on?. do you think its just a general anxiety that is making me feel this way. My new boyfriend doesn’t understand and he doesn’t really know what to do to make me feel better. Stand up tall, head held high and STICK TO YOUR QUIT. it’s like they want to. I moved to the other side of the world, broke up with my boyfriend of seven years, subsequently found out he’d been cheating on me for five of those, got blind drunk, a lot, went on bad dates, and had meaningless sex that sometimes left me with bruises. Harville Hendrix, Ph. The point right now is to break your chemical addiction to your ex even if you ultimately want to get your ex back. You check your e-mail and there’s a message from your ex. I can't get over the bitterness from that relationship. Thanks so much for your comment and for sharing a bit about your story. I understand … his ex uses his son against him. My ex is my baby’s father and is very cruel he even suggested that I threw myself down a flight of stairs. (8)If you need financial assistance. Larry King’s marriage to his seventh wife, Shawn King, is on the brink of collapse. So I’m not going to tell you that he doesn’t want to be with you and that he fed you that line as a bullshit excuse to get out of the relationship. Sound advice. My mother, and two of my daughters seem to have narcissistic personalities along with rage, jealousy, and instability. Even when chasing your girlfriend is the worst thing you can possibly do. It has to be genuine, think about it, would you want to get back with your an ex you dumped if they hadn't improved? I don't think so. There is nothing wrong with trying it again, but both of you need to be on board. We talked about being friends for awhile first. He thought he would gain information he could use in divorce court against me. My ex-wife seems to think it's perfectly ok since they dated before and she has told my daughter they used to. How To Finally Get Over Your Ex (Even If It Feels Impossible) Yes, you can do it. So, I'm just pretending to be happy until I leave. If your Ex brings up old arguments or issues don’t get into a debate over who is right and who is wrong. You feel rejected, and you want that feeling to go away, so you think about calling your ex back and smoothing things over. Posted by Nugget on June 5, You don’t want updates or pop ups, you just want to pretend like they never happened and no. RIGHT CHOICES: Getting your ex back, you have to make the right choices. Are you tolerating a sexless marriage? Sex is a normal, natural part of every marriage and as such, persistent, on-going differences in levels of sexual desire between spouses is frequently an indicator of bigger issues. I've never hidden it from anyone. Child visitation, child support, and following divorce decree orders are just a few tools at your ex's disposal when it comes to prolonging conflict after divorce. We’re glad to hear this post was helpful to you. Clearly he doesn’t actually trust himself either. We are single, but It's possible we could get back together in the future. After you have both told your stories, tell him you want to think about everything. It’s exactly the same behavior as the vindictive narcissist ex-husband who maligns the woman who left him. I rather deal with her than my ex just because she is so organized and easy to. 34 thoughts on "Narcissists Feel Great-They make Others Feel Miserable" It's as if my ex is from another world! I don't want to be unfair to her is. I love where I live but the family next door are ruining it for me My husband has been having an affair with a home wrecking whore at his work. By Paul Hudson. Minty_Fresh - Miserable Cunt. I want to be very clear about something right off the bat. I'm sitting here feeling miserable wanting to reach out to make sure he's okay and help him through this but I know I need to maintain NC because every time I let him in, he keeps hurting me and taking me for granted. If you’re under the age of 26, your ability to inhibit negative emotional states will be weak due to an underdeveloped pre-frontal cortex. The question that is always on your mind is whether or not this was a sign that your ex still likes you. He thought he would gain information he could use in divorce court against me. And this will be your chance to reconnect with them and make your ex want to get back with you. To outsiders, my husband and I appeared to be the perfect couple. If you both want the same things now, it sounds like timing is on your side. Why is that? We miss all the good things, of course – you know when they made us feel good and gave us what we needed emotionally and physically. How To Finally Get Over Your Ex (Even If It Feels Impossible) Yes, you can do it. Since you have a child together, you cannot cut all contact with your ex suddenly. And there is this another one i had, the type Bruno Mars sang about in Grenade who take and take but never gave anything, she even got pregnant for another person while we were still together. What can I do?” I’ll offer some suggestions in the following article. im/YWAdd Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where.